Friday, January 16 1761

After breakfast my father Slater went home… At home all day. But little to do. My wife, poor creature, most extreme ill; who can paint or describe my trouble? No, it is out of the power of human being to do it, and God grant my most inveterate enemies, if any I have, may never know so melancholy a situation. My soul is quite overwhelmed with grief; oh, the loss of so inestimable a treasure, even that of a sincere friend and virtuous wife!

Tuesday, January 13 1761

This day balanced accounts with Mr Francis Elless and received of him in cash 4.6.8 in full, [including]…

To a bill of schooling on the parish account0.8.0

My brother stayed and dined with us… and after dinner went home to Framfield. Balanced accounts with Mr Laurence Thornton and paid him in cash 3.10.0, which with goods etc. is in full for the five guineas and a half borrowed of him the 22nd ult.; viz.,

Mr Laurence Thornton Dr.
To a bill of goods2.0.6½
To horse hire0.13.0
In cash3.10.0
6.3.6½
Per contra Cr.
To cash paid for 4 rabbits0.3.0
To do. for 1 curry comb0.1.6
To do. 1 pair pattens0.1.0
In cash0.2.6
In do. the 22nd December5.15.6
6.3.6

Paid my brother Richard in cash the 12.12.0 he delivered to me the 1st instant. In the evening went down to Mr Porter’s and balanced accounts with him and received by one ten pound bank bill and by cash 40.16.10 in full to the 25th December last; viz.,

Mr Porter Dr.
To the account as per shop book39.10.9¾
To bill for tar, tar casks and carriage1.16.9
41.7.6
Per contra Cr.
Rec’d by empty tubs0.2.8
Do. 1 year’s tithe due St Michael last0.8.0
Do. a bank bill10.0.0
Do. in cash30.16.10
41.7.6

Stayed and supped with Mr Porter on some bread and cheese. Came home about 11 o’clock. My wife, poor creature, very ill.

Sunday, January 11 1761

Myself only at church in the morning… We dined on a pig roasted and bread sauce. In the morning Mr Snelling went on his journey. Our late and present servants at church in the afterternoon. During churchtime in the morning Mr Snelling called in his road home, but did not stay. In the evening read part of the Book of Job.

My wife, poor creature, very bad. who can describe or imagine the pang she has endured and which through God’s grace she bears with patience. Oh, if I am so unhappy as to lose her, what an inestimable treasure shall I lose! Alas, what shall I not lose!

Saturday, January 10 1761

Paid Mr Benjamin Shelley (by money he received of Mr Ben Treacher in full for rabbit skins sent him some time ago) 2.3.4 on account of carriage and 0.0.5 for 6 lemons, which together makes the sum of 2.3.9 and is the same he received of Mr Treacher…

After dinner I set out with an intent to have gone to Yalden, but finding the riding extremely bad I rode no farther then my brother’s at Framfield, and came back immediately. In the evening Mr Snelling called at our house in his way to Stonebridge, and it being somewhat dark, stayed with us all night. A very cold frosty day. My wife, poor creature, very ill. Rec’d of Robert Hook 1 roasting pig weight 10¾ lbs – 0.2.8¼.

Fiday, January 9 1761

Rec’d of Mr Joseph Burgess £3; rec’d of John Jones 6/-; ditto. of Francis Gibbs 4/-, in full of each for half a year’s land tax due at St Michael last.

After breakfast went to Maresfield to meet the receiver-general of the land tax, where I paid his clerk, Mr Thomas Gerry, the sum of £62 in part for half a year’s land tax due to his Majesty at St Michael last. Called at Framfield as I went and came, but did not stay…

Spent on myself and horse 7d. We dined on a piece of beef boiled and turnips and some boiled trout, which was made my wife a present of yesterday by Thomas Fuller Jr. After dinner walked down to Halland to fit Mr and Mrs Coates to a pair of gloves. Gave Elizabeth Akehurst 6d for her Christmas box. My wife, poor creature, very ill.

Thursday, January 8 1761

…In the afternoon went and served Miss Bett Porter’s funeral, where I gave away, with the gloves ordered which I have not served, in all 24 pairs; viz.,

2pairs Men’s kid
3pairs Women’s ditto.
7pairs Men’s lamb
6pairs women’s lamb
6pairs maid’s ditto.

Rec’d of Mr Jeremiah French 15.16.0 in full for half a year’s land tax due St Michael last. Rec’d of Joseph Durrant 14/- in full for half a year’s land tax due as above. My wife, poor creature, very ill.