Sunday, October 30 1757

Only myself and the two boys at church in the morning, my wife being very ill; the text in the former part of Romans 12:2: “And be not conformed to this world.” From which words we had in my opinion a very fine sermon showing how circumspect we ought to walk in this corrupt and sinful age, not minding the imputation of singularity and affectation if we persevere in a course of godliness.

The widow Smith of Laughton dined with us on a piece of bacon boiled, a raisin suet pudding, turnips and two roast ducks. Myself, maid and Philip at church in the afternoon; the text Exodus 20:8: “Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy”. From which words we had an excellent sermon showing the danger of breaking the sabbath and also exhorting everyone to spend that day to the glory of God. This afternoon the children of Mr Clinch and Stephen Weller were baptized.

At home all day except being at church. In the evening and in the day read four of Tillotson’s sermons. Mr Porter observed in his sermon this afternoon that if we were to search the annals of Tyburn [the usual place of execution in London], we should find the breaking the , sabbath to be a crime that has made way for more and greater which have at last ended at that unhappy place…

Monday, October 31 1757

Paid Mrs Virgoe the £2 I borrowed of her today. Borrowed of John Watford in change today 10/6. Mary Heath a-washing half the day for us. She dined with us… James Marchant drank tea with us. My brother came over in the forenoon to bring the mare, but did not stay. Rec’d of Mr Joseph Burgess… the money I paid on the parish account… Paid John Watford the 10/6 borrowed of him today in way of change… Posted my day book and wrote out Mr Clinch’s bill. In the evening wrote my London letters. Indifferently busy in the shop. Read part of Young’s Night Thoughts

Tuesday, November 1 1757

Rec’d of Thomas Ling by his wife in cash on account 0.10.6; Dame Ling stayed and breakfasted with us… Balanced accounts with Mr Samuel Beckett and paid him 14/- in full to the 29th September inclusive; viz.,

Myself Dr.
To a bill of carriage from the 30th June to the 29th September, both days inclusive8.3.11
Per Contra Cr.
28th October in cash5.0.0
To 48 yds Irish at 12¼ and carriage2.9.4½
In cash today0.14.0
8.3.4½

Mary Heath a-washing for us all day… My father Slater came to our house from Lewes about 4:40 and stayed all night. Thomas Davy at our house in the evening, and he and I played at cribbage; I lost 10d. Paid Mary Heath 13½d for 1½ days’s washing. At home all day. Read part of Josephus’s Jewish Antiquities.

Wednesday, November 2 1757

Balanced accounts with my father Slater and paid him 3.1.0 in full; he stayed and breakfasted with us and went away about 11:30. Paid for 11 whiting today 4d. Paid Clymson the glover in cash 1.6.6 in full for goods I received. of him today; viz.,

28 pairs mens’ outseamed tan gloves0.14.0
12 pairs boys’ do.0.4.0
2 pairs do. inseamed0.1.0
Horse leather0.3.0
6 carpenters’ aprons0.3.0
3 skins0.1.6

We dined on the remains of yesterday’s dinner with the addition of some boiled whiting. Oh, how transient is all mundane bliss! I, who on Sunday night was all calm and serenity in my breast and seemed desirous of nothing so much as my eternal and immortal happiness, am now nought but storm and tempest occasioned by the unhappiness that subsists between myself and wife. Well might the wise man say, “It were better to dwell in a corner of the house-top than with a contentious woman in a wide house.” The thought of such disturbances almosts distracts and weakens my reason, and when I think there is no hope of their end, as undoubtedly there is not go long as we both live, it almost drives me to despair. Oh, how could I apply myself with the assistance of God’s grace to work out my salvation! But now by such tumults I am as it were rendered incapable to lift up so much as an eye or hand to that great Benefactor of mankind without whose blessings the endeavors of frail man is but foolishness.

At home all day… Indifferently busy. Sent Mrs Roase at Lewes 2 ducks and gave my father Slater to-carry home with him. In the evening read the play of Tamerlane, written by Rowe, which I think a very good play; the character of Tamerlane is such as I think should be the character of all mankind.

Thursday, November 3 1757

Rec’d of John Streeter a bill from Sam Durrant on Sir Joseph Hankey & Co. in lieu of the £20 I sent by him on Monday last for the said bill. Paid him 2/-, which he paid to Mr Will Kemp for mending my watch, and afterwards I lent him in cash 10/6. Rec’d of Mr Vine 1 hundred kiln-faggots. We dined on the remains of Sunday, Monday, Tuesday and yesterday’s dinners with the addition of a light pudding and some turnips. At home all day. Read part of Tillotson’s Rule of Faith. In the evening Thomas Davy at our house, to whom I read 3 of Tillotson’s sermons.

Friday, November 4 1757

About 11:05 I set out for Lewes with Mrs Virgoe (Thomas Prall carrying her) in order to endeavor to procure Mrs Medley’s custom to be continued to her shop, but Mrs Medley not being in town and Mrs Virgoe being persuaded by Mr George Verral not to attempt it, we did not endeavor at it any farther. I paid Mr George Verral 2.12.0 in full on mine and my mother’s account; viz., 1.6.0 on each account; so that I have now 6/- of my mother’s in my hands. Rec’d of Mr Verral in cash 2.9.6, which I am to pay Mrs Hannah Atkins… Paid Mr Faulkner Bristow 2.0.6 in full.

We drank tea at Mr George Verral’s (but dined not anywhere). We came home about 9:15, though I cannot say quite sober, but I was very far from being drunk. I paid Mrs Atkins the 2.9.6 I received of Mr Verral today. My family at home in my absence dined on the remains of Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and yesterday’s dinners. Paid 2d today for 1 1b of tripe, upon which I dined or more rather supped after I came home. Mrs Weller’s family drank tea with my wife in my absence. I spent as under today, and as I went to Lewes on Mrs Virgoe’s account I believe I shall charge the same to her:

Spent a-treating with Mr Lee at the White Horse0.0.6
Spent at the Cats0.1.0
Do. horse and ostler0.0.3
Turnpike0.0.2
Martin’s0.0.1½
0.2.0½

In the morning busy a-sawing of wood.

Saturday, November 5 1757

In the morning Mr Burgess brought me a summons which Richard Braizer has lately been at Mr Courthope’s for, and he desired I would go and appear at Uckfield in his room, he being obliged to go to the funeral of John Carter, which was uncle to Mrs Burgess, to which I agreed upon condition he would lend me his mare to ride, which he did. The reason of Braizer’s complaint was: the parish has for several years past paid for keeping 2 of his girls, one about 10 and one about 12 years of age, one of which was kept by Richard Trill, the other by William Elphick. Both of these girls have for some time past been very saucy and impertinent, and Elphick, upon account thereof, corrected her by the order of a public vestry at Easter last, which so affronted Braizer that he declared she should live there no longer, pretending she was abused. Accordingly he took her home where she has been near 3 months and has lately demanded pay or relief for keeping her, which we refused; so he thereupon got a summons.

About 9:20 I set out for Uckfield, calling at the Nursery and taking Edmund Elphick along with me. I laid the story impartially before Mr Courthope, who severely reprimanded Braizer and told him all that he could do was to advise him to beg of the parish officers to put her out again to the same place. I came home about 1:50; after staying a short time, I went down to Mr Porter’s, this being the day of his tithe feast, and dined there on a buttock and piece of brisket beef boiled, a sirloin of beef roasted, turnips, carrots and a fine raisin bread suet pudding (my family at home dining on the remains of yesterday’s dinner) in company with Mr Porter, Mr Coates, Mr Jeremiah French, Mr Joseph Fuller, Mr Will Piper, John Vine Jr, Joseph Durrant, John Cayley, Ed Hope and Richard Hope. I paid Mr Porter 8/- in full for 1 year’s tithe, due at St Michael last. I stayed and smoked one pipe after dinner and then came home.

About 5:40 I set out to the house from which John Carter this day was buried in order to read the will of the deceased (by desire of Mr Burgess) to his relations, they all being all met to hear the same. I read the same to them, and in all their presence. The will of the deceased was, I think, dated the 6th May, 1754, and he thereby gives all his lands, movables and whatever he should die possessed of to his relict Susanna Carter during the time of her natural life or widowhood, and immediately after her decease or marriage, he gives his lands to his nephew Richard Carter and niece Elizabeth Carter, son and daughter of his brother Richard Carter, in trust for them to sell the same for the best price that can be gotten; and after taking out of the same five pounds apiece for their own over above their share, as shall hereafter appear, they are divided the same with the moneys arising from the sale etc. of the personal estate into 9 parts or shares, which he gives to the following: his nephews John and Harbour Wickersham, his nephews and nieces John and Joseph Seaman, Sarah Seaman and Elizabeth Jenner, and to the natural daughter of his niece Mary Seaman; and if any of the aforenamed should die before they come to enjoy their said share, then their issue is to enjoy the share of such parent so dying before they shall have enjoyed their said part. He also made his wife whole and sole executrix of his last will, contained on one sheet of paper, and which I believe was made by Mr Dungate, he being one of the witnesses.

I came home about 8:20 in company with Mr and Mrs Burgess. Thomas Davy at our house, in the evening, who supped with us. I Spent at Uckfield today on the parish account 14d, and I paid for shaving on my own account 3d.

Sunday, November 6 1757

My whole family at church in the morning. We had a brief read for the parish church of Wallazea in the, county of Chester, amounting to the sum of £1040 and upwards. I collected upon the said brief 19d, and 1d I gave myself, which makes collected in the whole 20d. We dined on a piece of boiled beef, turnips and a currant pond pudding. Robert Diggens came in just before churchtime and went with us to church and went away immediately afterward. After churchtime this afternoon I went into Mr Porter’s and signed the brief. My whole family at church in the afternoon…

At home all day. In the evening and the day read four of Tillotson’s sermons. This day and in the night there has been a great deal of rain, which is the first appearance we have had of winter in regard to the weather, for the roads till now have been almost as good as in summer, the dust at most places streaming as in the summer months; so that has been the finest season for the farmer to sow in as I believe was ever known.

Monday, November 7 1757

My brother came over in the forenoon to borrow the mare, but did not stay… Borrowed of the widow Marchant in cash one guinea on account she could not give me silver for a 36/- piece. Paid my brother in cash and goods 6/8 in full for 8 yds striped camlet sold to Mrs French today. We dined on the remains of yesterday’s dinner… Sent Dame Marchant the guinea by Philip which I borrowed of her today… In the afternoon Mr Harrison of Seaford brought to me one Elizabeth Blackman with an order signed by James Chambers and Robert Palmer, justices of the town and port of Seaford. Very busy all day; at home all day. Thomas Davy supped with us, to whom I read 2 of Tillotson’s sermons.

Tuesday, November 8 1757

Sent Messrs Margesson and Collison in a letter by Beckett’s carter (Beckett not going to London himself this week) the bill I received the 3rd instant from Mr Sam Durrant of Lewes by the post on Sir Joseph Hankey and partners, 14 days’ date, dated the 31st Oct., value £20 and also the bill I received of Mr Wharton on Mr Ed Pollard (by my brother yesterday) value £20. I also sent Mr John Crouch in a letter one bill on Messrs Margesson and Collison, No. 323, dated today, 21 days’ date, value £10. I also sent Messrs Bancroft and Nixon one bill on Messrs Margesson and Collison, No. 324, dated today, 30 days’ date, value £18, out of which bill 4.17.0 is in full on account of Mr Thomas Fuller. Borrowed of Dame Durrant in cash 1.1.0… Paid Dame Durrant the guinea I borrowed of her as above.

At home all day and very busy. In the evening Mr Burgess smoked a pipe with me. After he went away, I read 2 of Tillotson’s sermons. A very cold, frosty day. In evening examined Elizabeth Blackman in regard to her settlement and I doubt she will belong to this parish.