No service at our church in the morning, Mr Porter preaching at Laughton. In the morning my brother came over and borrowed my horse. In the afternoon my friend George Richardson called on me in his road to Waldron, but did not stay. Mr Stone paid my wife another visit and let her blood. Dame Hook dined with us on a pig roasted and bread sauce. In the afternoon my good friend George Richardson called on me in his way home and stayed and smoked a pipe or two with me. Our servant only at church in the afternoon. In the evening read two of Sherlock’s sermons. My wife really very ill. A melancholy time.
Monday, October 6 1760
…In the afternoon Mr Godfrey came over and I gave him his cash again which I received of him on Saturday and he accordingly delivered me my note of hand again. Sent Messrs Barlow and Wigginton enclosed in a letter by Shelley, delivered to himself, one bill on Mr William Margesson, 20 days’ date, dated tomorrow, No. 451, value £60.
At home all day and pretty busy, but surely my wife is extremely ill. Oh, what an agony of mind I am in with doubt and fear of my wife’s illness proving mortal. In the afternoon we had some thunder. Dame and Master Durrant and Elizabeth Mepham supped with us. Bett Mepham sat up with my wife.
Tuesday, October 7 1760
In the forenoon my brother came over… My uncle and cousin Charles Hill came to see me; also I received of my uncle one bill on Mr Henry Swainstone… value 27.15.0, which is in part of a note of hand of £30 due to my brother William and which my brother Moses and I laid down for John Browne till such time as my uncle could pay it in. My uncle did not stay, but my cousin stayed and dined with us on the remains of Sunday’s dinner.
Dame Durrant and Mrs Virgoe drank tea with my wife, who is extremely ill. In the evening there was a rejoicing at Halland and a bonfire for our armies under the command of General Amherst having taken Montreal and all Canada from the French. All the neighbors were regaled with a supper, wine punch and strong beer. Today sent Thomas Durrant to Brighthelmstone for Dr Poole, who came to my wife in the evening, who is prodigious ill. At home all day and thank God pretty busy.
Wednesday, October 8 1760
In the morning Mr Poole (he lying at Mr Porter’s) paid my wife another visit, and I paid him for his fee 2 guineas… At home all day and thank God pretty busy. My wife extremely ill. Borrowed of Mr John Long 3/6 in cash. Paid 12d for 2 chickens bought of Richard Piper.
Thursday, October 9 1760
In the morning got Bett Mepham to come and wait on my wife during her illness. In the forenoon my father Slater came to see us and dined with us on a piece of bacon, a plain suet pudding and cabbage. Mrs Atkins, Mrs Hicks, Mrs Jessup and Mrs French drank tea with my wife. My father Slater went home again in the evening.
Paid Mr Will Piper in cash 60.0.6 in full for money paid by Mr George Tomlin (for 2 pockets of hops sold for him… to Mr Will Margesson on my account on or about the 16th September last). At home all day and thank God my wife something better and pretty busy all day. Mr Poole, when he visited my wife yesterday, gave it as his opinion that her illness was the fluor albus and an ulcer in the right kidney.
Friday, October 10 1760
…This day balanced accounts with Will Sinden… Bett Fuller drank tea with my wife. At home all day and pretty busy. My wife not quite so well again. Thomas Davy sat a while with us in the evening…
Saturday, October 11 1760
Thomas Davy a-gathering of walnuts for me in the forenoon and dined with us on the remains of Thursday’s dinner, with part of a chick boiled… Rec’d of Ben Brinkhurst 7/6½ in full. Dame Cornwell drank tea at our house. Rec’d of Mr Joseph Burgess the half-Guinea I lent him the 4th instant. At home all day. My wife something better, and pretty busy all day.
Sunday, October 12 1760
Myself at church in the forenoon… The communion was today, and I stayed (gave 6d). John Shoesmith and Sarah Vine were asked today for the first time.
We dined on a shoulder of mutton roasted and onion sauce, potatoes and a plain rice pudding. No service at our church in the afternoon, Mr Porter preaching at Laughton. In the evening Thomas Davy at our house, to whom, and in the day, I read 3 of Sherlock’s sermons.
Monday, October 13 1760
…In the forenoon my brother came over… Rec’d of Mr John Vine Jr in cash £8 on account… At home all day. My wife continues very ill, though I hope in a mending way. In the evening wrote my London letters.
Tuesday, October 14 1760
Sent Messrs Barlow and Wigginton enclosed in a letter by Shelley (delivered to a person whom Shelley sent from Uckfield for the letters) 1 bill on Mr Will Margesson… to my brother Moses… (which he endorsed himself yesterday) value 7.8.6… which bill is on his account to Messrs Barlow and Wigginton and is in part of the £20 I borrowed of him the 6th instant… In the afternoon my cousin Thomas Ovendean called on me and stayed some little time at our house. At home all day and but very little to do. My wife continues very ill. Ah, how melancholy is my present situation; but let me not repine at the dispensations of providence, but let me submit with cheerfulness to the divine will.